Have you ever lost the love of your life, close friend you looked up to, your mentor close relative etc, through betrayal or lack of trust? that happens and healing from it is a daunting task, Don't hold on for too long.Let go. Move
ahead with your life, because life is beautiful and you haven't even
seen most of it yet. There are many surprises ahead, just go with the
flow.
So when you know you've lost someone forever because they no
longer wanted to stay, and they did in fact had a positive affect in
your life. and when important people always depart from your life you
question if you're good enough
"So when people leave, I’ve learned the secret: let them. Because, most of the time, they have to. Let them walk away and go places. Let them have adventures in the wild without you. Let them travel the world and explore life beyond a horizon that you exist in. And know, deep down, that heroes aren’t qualified by their capacity to stay but by their decision to return." —Isa Garcia, The Staying Philosophy
Have respect for what came before, release when it is called for and embrace what will come
Your heart will be heal and you will love like this again. The only difference is, when you do, you will deny you ever loved like this before.
when someone no longer -positively- affects your life. Let them go
Don't hinder your growth."
Letting go is also an expression of your love to yourself.
Letting go and saying goodbye is one of the hardest things to do in life especially to the loved ones .Maybe it's fear inside of us that we will never meet or that we may never find people like them again or probably the memories that were built together have a huge impact on us while trying to hold on and fight to having to preserve something so strong
Of
course, you never really forget anyone, but you certainly release them.
You stop allowing their history to have any meaning for you today. You
let them change their haircut, let them move, let them fall in love
again. And when you see this person you
have let go, you realize that there is no reason to be sad. The person
you knew exists somewhere, but you are separated by too much time to
reach them again." Chelsea Fagan, How We Let People Go
