There is always no ideal person in relationships.........

I posed a question to some of my friends about the ideal person  in a relationship, the one with all complements and attributes and from the feedback i realized that there is no such person,    

We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems the ones ...that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it's got to be the right wrong person someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have."

The problem is, stop looking for that person. Turn your attention inward, fall in love with yourself in a real way. The person you want will not come along until you do. Oh, and stop seeking perfection. It doesn't exist.

You love that person so much that even though everything is wrong, you feel that it is the right thing to do.

There is no such thing as ideal man or woman. Love someone and make him your ideal one. That is one of the secrets to a happy relationship.

All you have to do is find what is wrong in you and look for what should be right. In this world, right things come out when wrong things show up. They reveal themselves as a pair, just like the person you are trying to look for. Whenever you are wrong, someone else is right, but both of you are wrong in some way and right in another way. Just seek yourself more before seeing another